Have you ever asked yourself what you are supposed to be doing with your life? If you’re like me, it’s a question you probably revisit often.
Personally, living a purposeful and authentic life is super important to me. The times when I’m out of alignment with my purpose and my true self have been some of the most difficult times in my life. I absolutely hate feeling meaningless, useless, and generally bored with life. All these feelings are a BIG signal that you are out of alignment with your true self.
Your true self wants you to do what is meaningful and purposeful to you!
Luckily, because having a purpose in life is so important to me, I am really good at finding that purpose, finding meaning, and unlocking my true self. I’ve rewritten my story so many times, in fact, I believe our stories are always evolving.
Feeling bored, meaningless, useless, frustrated, unfulfilled, afraid, and/or burnt-out are all invitations to shift, grow, and be even more in your power. These aren’t feelings that you are meant to get stuck in, they are signals.
I know I’m not alone in questioning my purpose. A lot of my clients come to me with these same kinds of questions and feelings. It’s a tough place to be because you feel like you have to figure it out all by yourself and it can be easy to close yourself off to the opportunities that are right in front of you.
Sometimes when you’re questioning your purpose you truly don’t know what it is that you want to do with your life. If that’s the case, check out this article on Following Your Bliss.
Often, the bigger problem is we know what we want but we’ve chosen what feels safe, we find ourselves doing something because it makes sense logically. For example, my client Julie* was working her 9-5 job, often doing overtime, because she was afraid she couldn’t make money doing what she loved. Then there was Meghan* who stayed in the relationship where she was suffering so long that it took a toll on her health. She was miserably living to make other people happy. I’ve been there too, playing it safe but ultimately ending up feeling frustrated, unfulfilled, and questioning everything.
It is at these times that you know that there has to be something more, so much so that it keeps you up at night wondering and dreaming of what-ifs. Sometimes you spend months beating your head against the wall trying to breakthrough. If you’re at this point, it is a clear sign that it’s time to get help. Please, don’t give up. You can stay stuck as long as you want, but at some point, something is going to push you over the ledge. Why not take the leap yourself instead of waiting until you reach full-on burnout and absolute misery?
Here’s the thing: What you want is waiting on just the other side of a little bit of clarity, a little bit of empowerment, and the support to do what it takes. All you need is that push to break through and come out on the other side.
A good place to start is by booking an Intuitive Reading to dive into your specific situation and struggles. It will help you reveal why you are not doing what you want to be doing and really get you in touch with why you want to be doing it.
Yes, your purpose is what you want to do, remember when I said that your true self wants you to do what is meaningful and purposeful to you? Only you get to decide what your purpose is.
Often, there is a deeper reason to our search for meaning than we realize on the surface. For example, what you are currently doing may not match your unique energy signature and shifting could help you be more in alignment with what supports your energy.
In your reading, we will also dig even deeper into what is stopping you from pursuing what you want. Having clarity about this is so powerful because it gives you the opportunity to fully release it.
Remember, the purpose of a reading isn’t to find someone to do the work for you or have someone tell you what they think is best for you. Rather, it’s to have an intuitive guide help you feel empowered, happy, and confident in your own decision-making.